Ok, I've been wrestling for 35 years and now have 3 sons who have been in the sport since they were old enuf to walk. My oldest son is going into his junior year and after spending his freshmen and sophmore year on varsity and only winning 5 matches I wonder why he still does it? Heres the thing, he is a beast 6-4 215lbs, crazy cardio, crazy strength, and mean as hell. But he just doesn't get it after 12 years! He gets so disappointed after a loss but keeps coming back for more. We live in North East, Ohio with some of the best programs in the world.So, I'm asking all, what can I do to help him. He wants to win so badly, not me, I love him for what he is.