But, like I said, I don't try to push it on people because I've found that that is what usually pushes people away. My father-in-law did that to me this weekend at our family reunion. My brother-in-law and I were sitting on the porch of our cabin drinking beer. Not loud and not drunk, just drinking. He let it be known that we were embarrassing him and we wouldn't make it to heaven that way. We calmly reminded him that he wasn't the judge of who got in. It just makes me wonder how many people choose not to believe because of people like that.