I have my 20yr. class reunion coming up in July. I was wondering what the etiquette is when you either remember a face but not a name or just don't recognize a person altogether. I've been reviewing my yearbook to "study-up" but I doubt the guys are still going have their mullets. Mine tragically died years ago, too. I have also heard that it is at your 20th year reunion that the cheerleaders look fat and ugly and the "high school nobodies" are the hotties.
Personally I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't recognize me, but everyone is different. So, when someone walks up and says hi and knows my name, but I can't remember theirs, what do I do? Should I just say what's up and not throw out a name? Should I take my best shot at the name I think it might be? Or do I ask them who they are?
Oh, and ours is being held in a barn/party room thing. It has been fixed up to be pretty nice, but it is still just the old Theobald farm. So, am I to dress up, kaki casual or camo shorts and ball cap and half drunk? Actually, the last option is probably how they would remember me from high school, so..... Any advice would be appreciated.