I just broke up with my old high school girlfriend -the major reason -3-5 nights a week she had to take her adopted daughter to basketball practices ,games ,tournaments ,etc.and this goes on 12 months a year . I recently spoke to a wrestling coach whose wife left him cause he was gone all the time -now , if this is messing up adults lifes ,what is it doing to the kids ?

How do these kids afford to go all around the country to wrestle every week ? What price will this single minded tunnel vision take on these kids 5 years down the road ?

I know Devon -my ex's daughter -confided to me she was sick to death of basketball and she's a 7th grader .

Any thoughts out there ?