Well mine isn't in HS yet, but at the recent Middle School State she became just one of the "wrestlers", to a different geographical area of wrestlers, that hadn't seen much of her (or the other two studs placers in Arizona). The boys didn't have any issue with getting beat by her - they knew of her. And the two that beat her hardly let up (one got revenge)..... one even hurt her a bit..... and then they hung out for the rest of the tournament. As far as the rest of the kids went... she was just another tough wrestler who placed in a really big tournament.
Now whether some of the parents had issues.... I guess there were a few. For the first time - since we did the whole Middle School thing this year - I heard of some rumblings of discontent. But most just seemed to enjoy watching Reni (as well as Caroline and Amanda) compete.
As far as what happens in HS..... I know in Arizona there is one really tough girl who has placed, and the boys just wrestle her - there is no shame losing to a girl that good..... she has been a state placer afterall.
The who innapropriate touching thing cracks me up. I mean think about it...... wouldn't a guy grabbing another guys crotch, or doing an oil check.... be even more societly innapropriate?