How do you defend the breakdown where your opponent put his head in your arm pit, grabs your wrist with a tight waist and drives you forward? I've heard it called a Tulsa ride too.

A kid on my team, I'm getting closer and closer to beating him and right now. I can take him down, but I can't get out on bottom because of this Tulsa head in the arm pit ride. Usually he tight waist chops, then as I start to come back up he drops his head in my arm pit and ends up getting in an arm bar and wrist and pinning me, or he'll thread the needle.

Any tips on how to defend the Tulsa ride?