Originally Posted by Spider  I really believe that while participation in gay behavior may be a choice, sexual preference is not. Still, unless gay behavior is harmful (no more so that heterosexual behavior) or sinful (a religious judgement - doesn't belong in secular government), why deny gays the same right to marriage as heteros? Will they be worse at it? Doubtful. Will it cheapen the institution of marriage? Hardly, if it allows lovers to solidify their devotion to one another. |
I am just pointing out common arguments against gay marriage. I have stated before while I don't agree with the homosexual lifestyle I don't think that the gov. should regulate which consenting able minded adults can be married. I am however an advocate of letting the people of the state not the judiciary of a state vote on such issues and make the decision themselves. That way the voice of the people in the republic we live in is heard and followed. It is also a way for those who support the lifestyle to come out and support the measure through the democratic process instead of through the judiciary behind closed doors.